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Violetdates is an online dating platform designed for those who value deep connection and heartfelt conversations. Whether you're looking to add warmth to your day or enjoy light romantic communication, Violetdates creates the space to let those moments bloom naturally.Our platform focuses on helping people connect at their own pace, without pressure or expectations. Here, you can share thoughts, express yourself freely, and enjoy the experience of talking to like-minded individuals. It’s about enjoying meaningful exchanges and seeing where the moment leads — one message at a time.Every conversation is a chance to discover someone who brings positivity into your routine. With Violetdates, romance unfolds gently, bringing joy, comfort, and a touch of excitement into your life.Join Violetdates to enjoy thoughtful communication in a safe and welcoming environment. Whether you're here to connect with someone new or simply to explore romantic conversations, this is your place to feel inspired and enjoy every moment as it comes. Let romance bloom.
VioletDates (violetdates.com) has 154 customer reviews on The Fair Hearing, with an average rating of 3.4 out of 5.
154 approved reviews, newest moderated first
The person I am chatting with seems calm, sincere and easy to chat witj
By Debbie D.
Response from VioletDates· Dec 9, 2025
Hi Debbie, Thank you for sharing your experience. We’re happy to hear you’re connecting with someone who feels calm, sincere, and easy to talk with. Take care, Claire from VioletDates
Talking openly and honestly.
By J. M.
Response from VioletDates· Dec 8, 2025
Hi there, Thanks for sharing this. We’re glad you’re enjoying open conversations. Take care, Claire from VioletDates
Dating websites generally allow their clients to exchange contact details if they want to . On VioletDates, you can never meet in reality, because if you try and send an email address or a phone number to the person that you think you are talking to, outside of the (pay-per-message) website, the site blocks the message. The other tell-tale is that you can suggest meeting in a city, but the lady never agrees or replies to this approach. I got chatting to a person whose profile said they were a 62-years old woman, but all the photos in her profile showed a woman about half that age. I immediately got a sense of unreality. You (the man) have to pay VioletDate approximately €1,500 to get a womans’s name, telephone number or email. But first, you have to get the woman to send her agreement, however, there is nowhere on the site to do this. My honest advice, is avoid!
By Jim M.
Response from VioletDates· Dec 1, 2025
Hi Jim, Our system is designed to protect users’ privacy and safety while providing secure communication opportunities. Many profiles are verified according to our Terms of Services, and we encourage users to report any suspicious activity to [email protected] so we can investigate thoroughly. We aim to create a respectful and safe environment, and your feedback is valuable as we continue improving. Take care, Claire from VioletDates
I’m 42, single dad, not really a dating app guy. got curious, joined, and ended up having a few good chats after work. it’s nice to talk to adults who actually listen lol
By Oscar L.
Response from VioletDates· Nov 15, 2025
Hi Oscar, Thanks for sharing your experience. We’re happy you’ve found a comfortable space to have engaging conversations after work. Wishing you many more enjoyable chats ahead. Take care, Claire from VioletDates
Fraudulent, just a scam preying on men looking for love. Plain and simple
By Timothy
Response from VioletDates· Nov 1, 2025
Hi Timothy, Our platform operates under clear Terms of Services and has strict safeguards to prevent fraud or misuse. A lot of profiles are verified, and we continuously work to ensure a safe communication environment for everyone. If you’ve encountered any suspicious behavior, please report it directly or reach out to our support team at [email protected] so they can investigate further. Take care, Claire from VioletDates
Just not being able to actually connect in real lifetime situation without money being a issues it grips my ass that it hit me from the start hell Ive not even seen if she truly a female of my liken really
By William F.
Response from VioletDates· Oct 12, 2025
Hi William, Please note that our platform operates on a credit-based system designed to give users control over which features they choose to use. This helps maintain a secure and well-managed environment for communication. If you’d like guidance on managing your credits or have concerns about a specific profile, feel free to contact our support team at [email protected]. Take care, Claire from VioletDates
This is a warning to other men that have been taken for much money with credits and other expenses. It is a FRAUD site. I've had women answer my questions before, at the same time, I hit send. How can that be unless they are watching what I am typing before hand. I suspect that they are not women but are writing by men. I was able to catch one woman doing that and had no explanatin for it. I had a woman that was coming out to join me and the day I was supposed to pick her up at the airport, she dropped out of the site. This wasn't a short time. I had been talking to her for over 8 months. Needless to say, my savings ran out of tens of thousands of dollars just be writing. She told me she had a job when she arrived with me as a doctor at a local hospital. She told me she was taking exams and qualified as number one with her grades over 4 other people. Her salary was going to be very high and she thought she could get more, so asked for it. And they offered it to her. Half way through the testing her specialty changed. That just dosen't happen. That's when I was guessing she had been lying to me all along. A number of times, I asked how they knew that I was messaging and the reply I always got was they know that I am messaging them. No one could be specific. How often do you see they are online when its the middle of the night at their home. Then they pick up soon after. Believe me and all the others that gave poor reviews.
By guitarmanish
Response from VioletDates· Sep 1, 2025
Hi there, We take all reports of suspicious behavior seriously and have zero tolerance for fraud or deception on our platform. Please note that the profiles on this platform are verified according to our Terms and Conditions, and we have advanced moderation tools to maintain a safe environment. For any concerns regarding potentially fraudulent activity or unusual behavior, we strongly encourage you to contact our support team directly at [email protected] so they can investigate and provide assistance. Your feedback is important and helps us continue improving the platform’s safety measures. Take care, Claire from VioletDates
She showed interest. Was not stuck up. Very open and respectful. Honest. Having a heart ❤️ and all the sexiness she can offer.
By Luis Z.
Response from VioletDates· Aug 21, 2025
Hi Luis, Thanks for sharing your experience! It’s wonderful to hear you’ve had such a positive and respectful interaction. We want connections on the platform to feel enjoyable, so your feedback means a lot. Take care, Claire from VioletDates
