Three Day Rule MatchmakingReviews of threedayrule.com

Kristen has been one of the matchmakers I've used with Three day. She's been nothing but the best. Very professional, responsive, and honest.

I did Three Day Rule back in 2017, and it was very useful! I was in my late 30s, had gotten through a divorce a few years earlier, and I just wasn't having success on the apps. I am busy between work, friends, and activities, and I felt like I just didn't have the energy to dedicate to the apps to find quality dates. My first match was a good guy - definitely someone I would have gone on a second date with if I met him on the apps. We had a good connection, but I still wanted to meet another match. My second match ended up being wonderful, and we've now been married for almost 6 years!

Three Day Rule truly stands apart in the matchmaking world. What made the experience special was how deeply they focused on me—my values, my personality, and my long-term relationship goals—rather than pushing a high volume of dates. They listened carefully, asked thoughtful questions, and were incredibly intentional with every match. It felt personal, human, and genuinely well considered. Thanks to their care and attention to detail, they connected me with my wife. I can honestly say their approach works because they prioritize quality, understanding, and real connection over numbers.

Three Day Rule offered a genuinely personalized dating experience. My matchmaker took time to understand my preferences, checked in regularly, and used my feedback to refine each introduction. The matches provided were really spot on and felt intentional and higher quality than what I found on dating apps. It’s not cheap, but the thoughtful communication, curated matches, and supportive coaching made it a worthwhile investment. I’d recommend it to anyone looking for a more human and tailored approach to dating.

3 first dates which didn’t lead to anything

Krissy exceeded my expectations! Her advice changed the way I approached dating and without her guidance, I wouldn't be married to who she matched me with! Krissy truly cares, is an excellent communicator, and is incredible at what she does.

Run! They do not listen to your preferences, i.e. they send you whatever people they have available, claiming that you should be more "open" to bad matches, and they cannot be trusted to have your back and to present you properly to ones that are appropriate matches. In my experience, they do not provide a level of service equal to what you spend. They will even shamelessly sell a package to people who do not live in a market they service, and they don't even seem to have enough clients in major markets (LA and NY), as evidenced by the continued direct recruiting they do on LinkedIn. Also, be wary of the over-the-top contracts they put in front of you. They are one-sided and you will not be protected. Only they are. 98% of the guys they presented to me were still married, were nowhere near my physical or age preferences, and worst of all - we didn't have any similar interests. It's a total crap shoot, just like any dating app. Save your money and get back to swiping for free or a much lower fee, or get a real matchmaker who knows what they're doing. I genuinely thought this would be a big step up from the apps. It's not. If you decide to do it anyway, my advice is to make sure you know how you're being pitched to possible matches, because they will use your worst photos unless you tell them what to use, and they will do a very fast writeup that doesn't make you sound interesting at all. They do not care about matching people for love. It's just a rolling business model with a bunch of single matchmakers who work there part time and don't seem to know about dating themselves. They probably secretly resent their clients and purposely set them up to fail. I do NOT recommend this service, AT ALL.

I initially signed up for a matchmaking service in 2022 in Philadelphia. The matches provided were decent, surpassing the quality of those I found on dating apps in terms of compatibility. My final match during a three-month contract in Philly was so promising that I decided to renew for another three months after relocating to Miami. Unfortunately, this is where my experience deteriorated. After signing the new contract in Miami, I was not informed that the service was not fully operational in this market. Consequently, my matchmaker struggled to find matches, leaving me without a single match for over a year. The quality of the few matches provided was extremely poor. Despite clearly stating my preference for a financially stable partner, I was matched with a 36-year-old man living with his parents due to financial constraints—an unacceptable match. I provided detailed feedback, but my matchmaker dismissed my concerns and refused a re-match, luckily I had one match left. Now, 2.5 years later, the matchmaker has failed to fulfill the three-month contract and provides no regular updates on their progress. Despite my clear communication about my physical and emotional preferences, the matches have consistently been unsuitable. For those in Miami, I strongly recommend exploring other matchmaking services, as this company's performance in this market is substandard and not suited for high-caliber women. Despite breaching the contract (a three-month agreement stretching to 2.5 years), they have refused to offer a refund. While I believe in the potential of matchmaking, having had positive experiences with other companies, I advise avoiding this service in Miami.