ZERO accountability or action against abuses BY the "models"
I had a "model" demanding "tributes" from me to "prove myself almost immediately. I know this is a part of the kink called "findom" (short for Financial Domination)... except im not into that one, which I made clear to the model but i went ahead and sent a 25 dollar tip, assuming that would satisfy her and we could move on. She mocked the amount that I sent, then told me I still had to send more to talk to her. At this point I informed again that I wasn't looking to do Financial domination stuff, that I had other things I was into, just responded she didn't care and told me send more or she wouldn't talk to me. So I sent another slightly smaller tip. You can guess what happened, she demanded more.. so i sent her one more $10 tip, just because at this point the sunk cost fallacy had set in, this time she just didn't say anything to me. So I confronted her about this and said that she hadn't provided any service I sent her all that money and she just basically LOL at me and told me to deal with it. I reported her, who knows what if anything was done about it because it's technically not a violation of the code of conduct for them to do that. Similar things happened w other models. Others we're actually overly demanding that I go and try to get a payday loan for taking a credit card or something to pay them more. And I'm sorry in what world is that okay? You would think surely that would count as them "encouraging harm" but no apparently not because they all still do that even though I've reported the ones that did it as well. I even once had a mainstream pornstar laugh and get angry at me when I tried to set a boundary w her on something she said... and I'm sorry don't we live in a society where violating sexual boundaries is the kind of thing that cost people careers? Not on SextPanther! Ive come to the realization that they basically can do whatever they want...to a 'client' that is. The majority of the rules in the model code of conduct seem to be directed at actions that harm SP. Harming a client pretty much seems to be just protected under the classic "well you consented" defense. Maybe I'm the only person who's had these sort of experiences on here but I did give the site many many chances by interacting with different models and it was all the same across the board with them when it came to that sort of behavior. We have no recourse and they have no accountability and those two things combined = stay the hell away, save your money and save your frustration. They're getting away with fraud and emotional and financial abuse at a minimum, wish they could just as easy to do to you next and you'll have no recourse either. STOP REWARDING THIS AND STAY FAR FAR AWAY FROM THEM.
By Saul G.