Loving Without Boundaries, Kitty ChamblissReviews of lovingwithoutboundaries.com

“My husband and I had opened things up in our marriage and things went badly. I realized I am polyamorous and he isn’t. We were in fear and out of trust. We needed a safe and effective place to go to address our issues without being judged. Kitty and her program were our answered prayers! I learned so much valuable information that I can apply to every relationship in my life, especially to my relationship with myself. Our marriage is more solid, our communication is healthier, and our connection is stronger. I am feeling more confident in myself and look forward to living our best lives together!” — Anna A.

The LWOB program helped me to become happier and more confident with myself! I am single and started to identify as ethically non-monogamous within the past couple of years. I’ve had some great relationships in my past, but many of them were ending in heartbreak and frustration since my partners identify as monogamous. This was causing me to feel shame and to think something was wrong with me, which only lead to more negative internal thoughts and a lack of confidence. The LWOB program brought me the following benefits: — Community: Mixture of non-monogamy and monogamous people who have the communication skills and shared experiences to help each other. — Tools: A variety of exercises to help me more clearly sort out my own thoughts and beliefs, along with a chance to practice how I communicate who I am and what I seek. — Wealth of Resources: There are so many videos, books, podcasts, websites, online community groups, etc that help to share other people’s journeys on what relationship style they seek and effective ways to live that life! — Confidence: Kitty and the LWOB program helped me find my MOJO again! I am excited and confident about sharing who I am, what I have to offer and the type of relationships that I seek, with other like-minded ethically non-monogamous people. Even though I’m finished with the program, I am still using many of the techniques I learned to communicate more clearly with people from all circles of my life while also having fun connecting with other non-monogamous friends and partners!

My husband and I found Kitty in our hardest, crisis moment, being skeptical at the start I dove in into her magical guided course. And what valuable tools we've found! She is like a wiz taking on a magical journey of self exploration, observation of your boundaries. Being comfortable with new dimensions of myself I gained confidence in voicing my needs and to myself and y partner. This is another gem that she can gift you, are keys to healthy communication. Overall very satisfied with how easy and user friendly her whole course went, and weekly calls were so beneficial to feel the spirit of transformation, of course there wr some stagnant moment in my experience, but I was always felt open to share it during the group or private and get wholesome help and support. Go Kitty, your mission is great, and Im wishing you only to thrive and flourish!

I reached out to Kitty as a last effort to save my marriage, my wife and I were in a very tough spot at the time. I admit we winced at the cost but knew that the chance to save our marriage was more than worth the cost. It was an amazing experience working with Kitty, she is a truly fantastic person and coach. We learned so much about ourselves and eachother throughout the program and also so many tools to utilize in every aspect of our lives from our relationship to parenting and even our professional lives. I am so very thankful to Kitty and the community of LWB for the support, patience and love that they openly share. It was a life changing decision and I can not express how grateful I am to have found her program and the LWB community.

Bad negative behavior and thought processes: once it becomes a habit, it feels comfortable, safe, and easy. Even though it’s destructive, it’s the easy way to go. You don’t have to do any work. You just scratch that itch, and it feels good and you just roll with it. When you start to make these really intentional choices and changes in the way that you think, based on the things I learned in this course and time with Kitty, which then dictates how you behave, it’s SO hard and it feels like, oh gosh, is it always going to be this hard? But what does Kitty always say? You are building that muscle and the more you flex that muscle – such as sharing with friends what I’ve learned – that helps me even more. The feelings will go away, but eventually you learn how to handle the feelings in a productive. Eventually the triggers are not so "trigger-y" anymore. Eventually it gets better! That’s the work you have to do and this course facilitated that in a way that I have not experienced in any other formet. It worked for me, and I like who I am still becoming because of it, even a whole year later! It’s making me a more mindful parent; it’s making me a different kind of employee; it’s bleeding over into all sorts of aspects of my life. It’s not just my relationships, this is about me.

Before we began this program, we were in a state of ignoring issues and just trying to make it through everyday. Now we have the communication tools to resolve conflicts, issues, and emotional triggers quickly. We rely on, support, and trust each other more than ever.

Wow ! where do I start! I have been married for 13 years. In the last two years I have been taught to see myself, hear myself,learnt to love. Who knew that loving was a skill that is taught. I am closer than ever to my husband. And our partner has just slipped in like a glove. It is hard seeing myself and owning my behaviours. I have experience the coarse and couldn’t of been where I am now without it. Kitty has become part of our Life. We check in with her every 2 months with kitty . Or reach out to kitty when ever someone is a bit stuck. Working on myself is an everyday job. With kitty’s tools and support there is an awakening in my life. Knowing that when it gets tough. I’m not left empty and fighting. I’m left with a tool box that I can rummage through. So exciting ! Lovingwithoutboundries coarse Has saved me so much money. I have stopped implosive spending on clothes, fix it diets , health retreats, FOOD that I don’t need. Also doctors appointments, and to hear that all I need is self love,then walking away from them feeling broke,unheard,disorientated in where to go from here . I am now the healthiest inside and out that I have ever been. We have even inspired others around us to do the coarse. Just by them seeing us grow . Thank you Kitty and her team that backs her.

Absolutely worth every penny. I wrote that first in case you’re just skimming reviews. We have never experienced a therapist, counselor, mentor or coach on any topic who was so invested and engaged with us and so clearly and genuinely had our backs. Both of us entered our relationship after failed attempts at monogamous marriages, knowing that we were just never going to be monogamous. But there are challenges galore to be navigated, and it is sometimes rough going (to put it mildly). We first met Kitty when she presented at the Beyond the Love conference, when we were just starting to seek out the skills we needed to grow our relationship in a non-monogamous way. In the few years since then, we’ve explored, grown, and figured out what we desire and don’t desire. We found that we preferred slightly different versions of non-monogamy. Eventually this led to a major relationship crisis, and we faced the impossible choice of either ending our relationship or circling the wagons while doing our best to suppress our desires until we couldn’t stand it anymore (which then would have eventually ended the relationship). We had bought Kitty’s book a year or two prior and decided to sign up for her 9-week coaching program. Kitty has without exaggeration changed our lives. We are living the life of our dreams. If our past selves could look at the life we have created, they would be mind-blown. The beauty, love, and intimacy in our relationship and our lives is better than it’s ever been. You CAN have your cake at eat it too!