The Attractive ManReviews of theattractiveman.com

Matt has created an incredible program here to help men improve their social skills, self-esteem, and ability to interact with members of the opposite sex. He has fine tuned the art attracting members of the opposite sex. The tools he uses are based on common sense and help us put into practice what we know deep in our hearts to be true. Finding the attractive man was a life-changing event for me and I recommend the program highly!

Had an amazing bootcamp at playa del carmen, met some great people ! Would recommend it to anyone looking to boost their confidence with women and boost their social skill.

The Bootcamp has been an incredible experience.

Just finished the 7-Day Advanced Immersion Budapest bootcamp with Matt and it was amazing. I approached beautiful women in a fun, flirty and respectable way, went on multiple dates with multiple women, and built amazing bonds with the other guys in the bootcamp. The program teaches everything from inner work, to building deep attraction with women and gives you the tools and mind set to apply to your personal life. I find the in-field bootcamps and personalized coaching invaluable since you get customized feedback and learn not only how to attract women but also the process to build self-confidence, emotional intelligence, and how to have authentic deep connections with others. I am excited for the future knowing that I am able to confidently approach and talk to the women I want. I would definitely recommend The Attractive Man to anyone who’s not satisfied with their dating life. I only wished I did this many years ago.

This review is for the Connecting With Women workshop (CWW for short), run by Lynn Matalon. I just finished it four days ago. I did this workshop because I have trouble coming off well on dates; instead of being charming and funny, which (I flatter myself) I am around friends, I feel stilted and awkward and stressed out, which is *deeply* unsexy. I also have a certain amount of totally general social anxiety which doesn't help. CWW is mostly based around the concept of "you spend three days working one-on-one with a cast of pretty girls, vetted by Lynn on the basis of some combination of attractiveness, perceptiveness, and ability to provide detailed feedback. Together with these girls, you do structured exercises meant to develop comfort around being bold, being vulnerable, and expressing attraction." I'd go into much more detail, but the nature of a lot of these exercises is such that you want to go into them blind (which is why Lynn asked me not to discuss them in detail.) About five days out from the end of the workshop, it feels like one of the most meaningful and intense experiences I've had over the past few years. Which sounds nuts (I mean, jesus, it's a three day workshop, come on), but honestly, how often do you get multiple days in a row of guided exposure therapy in going outside of your comfort zone? How often do you get to iterate on your personal bearing and mode of expression, with the help of detailed feedback from the girls you're speaking to? And good lord, the feedback. I have never received such intensive and detailed critiques of so many aspects of my bearing and actions. Some were quite flattering! Some, *significantly* less flattering. Some of the feedback I would classify using words like "brutal" or possibly "savage." But generally the messages were clear and actionable, and as the weekend wore on I found myself much more relaxed even with the models I'd never worked with before, even outside the structured exercises; and from the descriptions of both the models and the other guys I was coming off *much* better than when I entered. Is this just a fleeting workshop high? Man, how should i know, it's just been a few days since this ended, get off my back. But it *feels* to me like something I should be able to parlay into a permanent bonus of +1 to charisma. Maybe +2, if I really push myself and play my cards right. TL;DR: if you want to become as awesome on dates as the imaginary version of yourself who lives in your head but isn't allowed to do anything because you're nervous, you could do a *lot worse* than taking Lynn's Connecting With Women course.

I recently attended the Connecting with Women Workshop hosted by Lynn Matalon, and it was a game-changer. Lynn created a thoughtful and insightful program that addressed some of the core challenges I’ve been facing in connecting with women on a deeper, more intimate level. Through engaging activities and powerful discussions, I gained a clearer understanding of the barriers I’ve been encountering. If you’ve ever felt disconnected or struggled to form meaningful, authentic relationships with women, I highly recommend this workshop. It truly helped me unlock new ways to build genuine connections.

The 2024 September Bootcamp that I attended was both an intense and an enjoyable experience for me. Lynn Matalon is one of the most down to earth women that you will ever meet and is an amazing teacher. I learned about what I need to work on not only when it comes to trying to meet women, but also when it comes to dating in general. I was challenged to leave my comfort zone throughout the entire experience and every time that I did that, it became easier and easier. This Bootcamp was so much more than just about learning how to approach women on the street and how to be a better date; I got to go to a city that I had never been to before, I learned how to enjoy nightlife even though I’m not really a club goer and I created memories with strangers going through the same journey that I am and I already want to see them again. I can’t remember the last time that I had this much fun. While I encourage anyone that’s having a hard time dating to come to a bootcamp, these are definitely not for everybody. This experience will teach you things about yourself that even you didn’t know. You will need to be willing to change the ways in which you think, speak and behave; it’s insane how the littlest things can affect your chances for a date or if all goes well (and you like what you have learned about the lady), a relationship. Making a lot of money, having an reputable job, owning a home or an expensive car is impressive, but it’s ultimately how you present yourself to other people and how you live your life that truly makes you attractive. If you are willing to put in the time and effort for any of these things, this will be an experience that you can look back at and say, “I’m so glad I did that”. My only regret is that I didn’t do this sooner.

The people I’ve met and experiences I’ve had are unbelievable. I just finished a bootcamp with Lynn in LA. And it was simply 72 hours of phenomenal moments. Every bootcamp I do, I see myself becoming capable of frankly unimaginable success. To go from being strangers to connecting with amazing, beautiful and inspiring women within a single conversation. You cannot put a price on how freeing that is. Lynn is an amazing human being. And there is no doubt in my mind that she wants what is best for the people who are lucky enough to come her way.