It's Just LunchReviews of itsjustlunch.com

The experience was not really good because, compatibility goes way beyond just age. Values communication, styles and even life goals play a huge role. If those things don't align, it can fee like you are speaking different languages.

IJL is friendly and professional. They do try to provide good customer service. Of the few dates that I have had with them in the past 12 months, all have been in nice locations with nice, gentlemen. The problem for me is that none have met the criteria that I set when I first started, neither were the gentlemen current paying clients with IJL. Therefore, the motivations, etc., were not aligned. They were nice dates with no chance of going anywhere close to what I believed I was going to get for the $1,000s I paid; namely, someone interested in a relationship with me after seeing my picture and profile info and hearing from my matchmaker about me. Not one of them saw my pic first because not one was a paying client. I do not know if there were not any in my area or if none of the paying clients wanted to meet me but it seems at least for the Detroit area IJL had slim pickings to choose from for me but took my money as if they had a decent roster. So if I had to do it again, I would not pay $1000s for the service (only $100s) because it is frustrating for me and my demographic but I would say that the service provider seems to be doing the best it can with whatever limitations it has. My frustration is not communicating with me the true limitations still. I get the sense that they will fake it until they make it with my case. Now, with all that said, I recently received a new matchmaker and went on a new date. They both have been a lot closer to what was expected when I joined. So I have gone from frustrated to hopeful again. Looking forward to the next with great expectation. Thanks for letting me share.

Can any of u folks who found a good legit, reasonably priced matchmaker, preferably on west coast, especially if in the pnw area please let me know? No idea where to start, definitely can't afford thousands for the service, or is that unrealistic?

This company is just a sham. Basically, they are no different than used car people. They require a massive amount of money upfront, which by the way is NON-REFUNDALE, they conveniently leave that part out. Then when you realize what this company is really about, it's too late, they got you! Even worse, then they require monthly fees. Really, all this is is a giant money grab for them. So to all the men out there, don't fall for their sales pitch. You will thank me later.

Their best day is the day they convince you to pay $3900 for 12 months/12 dates. You will learn after the fact that anyone they put forward for you ,no matter how inappropriate will count as a date even if you soundly reject them for not meeting your specific requirements. Buyer Beware!!

Not great matches, often time they did not meet the criteria. Spotty communication to give feedback or get some clarifications during the time I used my membership

The venue was too loud. The lady was going into the date from a point of view of caution instead of comfort. I had no say into the date other than offering a two week window that I was available.

Date was not very attractive. No lipstick or makeup. Hair sort of not taken care of. She was highly educated but too left leaning. Not very family oriented.