There are people other than just us
My husband and I grew up in very religious Mormon households, and he grew up feeling a lot of shame about his sexuality and desires for many sexual partners, often feeling like there's something wrong with him. Last night's uncensored talk gave him an actual visual, and reminded him that there are other people doing open relationships to varying degrees out there, and that it's not just him who isn't content having sex with just one person for the rest of his life.
By JG